𝘿𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙝𝙞𝙢?

If you’re dating, or have been dating, & you juuuussst can’t get a grip on if he’s after a future, or just fun….ask him this!

𝑯𝒐𝒘 𝒅𝒐 𝑰 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒊𝒇 𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆𝒔 𝒎𝒆 & 𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒅?

Well….the short answer is, he’s not trying to play!

That can kind of hit you sideways if you’re accustomed to the opposite. You just have to make the mental & emotional adjustment.

We all face “tower moments” from time to time. They come in to show you that what you thought…wasn’t true. What you believed…wasn’t true. The foundation of your life, or your belief system was faulty & or needed knocking down & changing. A sudden shock, ending, or realization comes in and you get to leave it behind or build it again better. Either way, the good news is, the lights are on now and you can!

These massive changes, & “dark nights of the soul” test your resolve and resilience. They come in to learn humility, strength, & create your character. Many times to finally reveal to the world exactly who you are.

𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐟 the 𝐓𝐰𝐢𝐧 𝐅𝐥𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 / 𝐓𝐰𝐢𝐧 𝐅𝐥𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧

Ancient Greek philosopher Plato first created the idea of souls “split in two” that eternally yearn to find their “other halves.” These days we still carry around this idea of “find our other half”

If you feel you are on a "Twin Flame Journey" I would recommend only reading articles, and information prior to the Pandemic. Most information is actually plagiarized, almost word for word, from the very few things written pre-pandemic.

𝑳𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒍𝒚 𝒍𝒊𝒃𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 & 𝒄𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒓𝒆𝒎𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒍 𝒕𝒐𝒙𝒊𝒄 𝒑𝒆𝒐𝒑𝒍𝒆 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆!

I’m not talking about people who don’t agree with you, or have the same opinions, or point of view. I’m talking about people who actually actively hurt you.

People who actively clip your wings & tell you that you can’t, or aren’t smart enough, or capable enough.

People who go to great lengths to hurt, change, or control your life in some way.

I started with a new coaching client today, & they had a VERY familiar story. I listened to what they had to say & it sounded strikingly similar to mine!

~ I’m in chronic pain ALL THE TIME

~ Every diet I try doesn’t work

~ I exercise & not a damn pound comes off

~ Every test that every doctor runs says I’m in perfect health & they don’t know what’s wrong

If he’s not coming at you the way you like….throw his a$$ right back in the pond.

He needs to be sent back like a steak that wasn’t cooked right!

If he loves you, wants to have sex with, or have sex with you again…he’s coming back! Just keep sending him back until he’s not treating you like a THOT, an option, or flat-out taking you for granted.

You 100% deserve a Killer Whale! 100%

All the little sayings & euphemisms are absolutely true! About valuing yourself & how you view yourself especially. Please don’t forget, I was over 200 lbs for a long time there is a lot of rewiring that has had to be done.

𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙗𝙚 𝙨𝙞𝙜𝙣𝙨! 𝘼𝙉𝘿! 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙖𝙨𝙠 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢!

Whatever faith you may be, signs from God, the Universe, guides & ancestors are promised! They are actually always sending you signs & messages, it’s just up to you to pick up what they’re putting down.

When you start awakening to this, it will blow your mind how long it has been actually happening for you!

"𝑳𝒂𝒅𝒚 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒓𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒃𝒍𝒆, 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒅𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆. 𝑨𝒏𝒅 𝒊𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒅𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒂𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅 𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒃𝒖𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔." - Beth Dutton - “Yellowstone” Season 4 Episode 3

Beth says this to a “Karen” in a store who gets opinionated about how Beth is disciplining a boy she chooses to raise.

I must have screamed so dang loud “Yes!” That the neighborhood thought my dry spell was over!

If a man, worst case scenario, wants to have sex with you, wants to again, OR best case scenario, loves you….he’s coming back.

𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡’𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑓𝑎𝑏𝑢𝑙𝑜𝑢𝑠 𝑛𝑒𝑤𝑠！

Just be careful which one of the above it actually is for.

Bruh …. No “healed woman“ is going to be down for, or fall for toxic behavior & antics. They just won’t. Thankfully, most men speak it or show it in some way, so detection isn’t difficult. The unhealed woman will ignore it & move forward anyway. It’s not that she didn’t pick up on it.

So I started reading “75 𝑯𝒂𝒓𝒅 𝑨 𝑻𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒍 𝑮𝒖𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝑻𝒐 𝑾𝒊𝒏𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑾𝒂𝒓 𝑾𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒀𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇” by Andy Frisella

Now, I wasn’t a fat kid like him, I did play sports & excelled at all of them, & depending on what school I was at, I was or was mostly popular or known.

HOWEVER! Everyone always told me I was dumb & frankly, they still do! I can relate so much to that part of his story! Plus honestly…. The family stuff too.

That, unfortunately, is the cold hard truth amongst all the bologna. They ain’t lying about THAT.

It doesn’t even matter what’s going on…they won’t do it. They may stay, but they won’t get married. It won’t matter how well you walk the line & what you suck up. When they’re shut down, they’re shut down AND 100% capable of going through all the motions. It’s alarming!

𝙐𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙡 𝙮𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙙𝙖𝙮… 𝙖 𝙙𝙞𝙙𝙣’𝙩 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙄 𝙝𝙖𝙙 𝙖 “𝙇𝙚𝙩 𝙞𝙩 𝙜𝙤” 𝙩𝙮𝙥𝙚 𝙨𝙤𝙣𝙜

Mine is “Down Came A Black Bird” by Lila McCan

I’m not a country music fan, but I definitely like that one! This song comes into my life at interesting times. She came out with it in my early 20’s when I was deciding to move on from my oldest’s dad. I never realized how many of the song’s lyrics I incorporated into my personal vernacular either

In all honesty, most people overthink too much these days!

They plan to plan. Have meetings for meetings… What actually goes to plan?

Complacency only kills when you’re at war. Nowhere else really. In civilian life, not acting gets you nowhere! It’s the actual complacency that kills.

“𝑯𝒆’𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒔𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒅. 𝒀𝒐𝒖’𝒓𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒉𝒊𝒎 𝒔𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒅!”

That is a quote by, Kacye Dutton, played by Luke Grimes on “Yellowstone “ Season 4 Episode 3

He was speaking to his wife Monica about their son Tate who wouldn’t come out from hiding under the bed. Tate had suffered the trauma of shooting an intruder who attacked his mother. (He’s 9 years old in the show)

I resonated with Kayce’s quote immediately & gave it an out loud “Yup!”

𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝑾𝑰𝑳𝑳 𝒔𝒆𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒏𝒆𝒘!

Prior to COVID, the information on Twin Flames was limited, but it was great and accurate information!

Since the pandemic, the information has been diluted, and everyone interested these days thinks it's a desirable relationship and a pinnacle soulmate connection.

It's a Divine Connection for sure, AND it's the MOST challenging spiritual growth process and journey. It's not a typical soul mate, "And they lived happily ever after" connection. The relationship is meant to expose your weaknesses and healing desiring to be done within you.