He is with you because it’s easy.

𝙃𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪, 𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙞𝙩’𝙨 𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙮.

I’ve been trying to post this #GirlPower advice for weeks now, & every time I think it’s time, another thing happens. I’m just going to rip the Band-Aid off.

I asked a friend of mine, last night, if he was getting married again (Hot, singer, underwear model btw) & he basically said “never again.” He was hurt & betrayed by his ex wife. He’s sensitive & attractive by anyone’s standards and because I’ve learned my lessons…I know to believe him, even though my gut tells me it’s a Sheild of protection. Wisdom has taught me they are pretty upfront about these things.

My oldest daughters watched me go through stuff & as I went through it, I’d coach them on NOT doing what I did. Thankfully, so far so good!

Off the top of my head, I can think of 3 long-term relationships that lead to nowhere because I thought when a man flat-out told me he didn’t want to ever get married…he’d change his mind. #TheyDontDoThat

That, unfortunately, is the cold hard truth amongst all the bologna. They ain’t lying about THAT. It doesn’t even matter what’s going on…they won’t do it. They may stay, but they won’t get married. It won’t matter how well you walk the line & what you suck up. When they’re shut down, they’re shut down AND 100% capable of going through all the motions. It’s alarming!

Have you ever had one like you that would seriously mortgage 3 houses for you if you wanted something? That’s because in THAT situation, #YoureTheOne ! You’re the Star You’re the Queen of Queens ! If he ain’t doing that…He’s just not THAT into you #BeenThere I could literally write a book.

They either wake up & are enlightened by you & try and figure everything out for you…

OR

you’re a placeholder for “The One”

I’ve been the placeholder position more often than not, for men who weren’t healed, ready, or I didn’t set the spark off in them! They don’t change & it’s on you if you didn’t believe them when they laid it all out for you in the first place.

𝙇𝙚𝙩 𝙢𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙢𝙤𝙢 𝙞𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨 𝙙𝙞𝙙𝙣’𝙩 𝙩𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙨𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤.