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Narcissistic Abuse. A True Story!

𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 & 𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞, & 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬, & 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐝𝐨𝐰 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞!

𝙼𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚒𝚝 𝚋𝚎𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚗𝚜𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚝.

𝐼𝑡’𝑠 𝑛𝑒𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑎𝑟𝑦, 𝑠𝑜 𝑎𝑠 𝑎 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑑𝑒𝑟, 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝐼 𝑑𝑖𝑑 𝑖𝑡, 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝐼 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 offer 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝐢𝐬 𝐀𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 #Wisdom

I had every intention of doing a testimonial post today, which was going to be pretty watered down, because when I don’t, my ex husband sues me, my parents help, & my children get brainwashed & manipulated. Then the kids end up hurt & in serious situations, because they don’t understand. They’re kids….even at 28, 20, & 17,17,17 years old.

𝗠𝘆 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵𝘀 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲𝗱.

That’s the very first & main problem, because, #imageIsEverything to them.

Cassie Lynn Messer made a post this morning that damn near brought me to tears. I was going to do a testimonial regardless, because that’s what I had scheduled…we’re gonna dive deeper though.

𝐈 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐝.

I drank 2 bottles of wine (Riesling or Moscato) a day.

I literally wished for a truck 🛻 to hit me every day, because I was too terrified to handle it myself.

My kids were what saved me each day & grounded me, because I knew what they’d be left with, if I was gone. Exactly what’s happening in the past 3 years specifically, 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑙𝑎𝑠𝑡 13 𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑡ℎ𝑠.

Each day, I’d look at them & there’d be a tiny light 💡 & will to live knowing I got to be their mom. I loved being their mom. I watched every Oprah & Dr Phil to learn what I could.

I had gotten into a second marriage, where from the time I was pregnant with my 20 year old, I was cheated on constantly… and I knew it.

𝐼 𝑛𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑓𝑎𝑐𝑒𝑑 𝑖𝑡.

By the time my triplets were born, it was a known thing amongst friends & his coworkers.

I didn’t have the will or brainpower to look at his multiple phones & computers. They were all work related, so they were password protected.

There were a few messages & phone calls I asked about & I was gaslit into being dramatic, crazy & overreacting. So the most I would do is scream, cry & cower down.

My family wouldn’t tolerate a negative thing said about my ex husband. They could not understand why I had so many “things” & money…”why I wasn’t happy?” I was a “selfish, spoiled brat.”

𝙸 𝚍𝚒𝚍𝚗’𝚝 𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚊 𝚓𝚘𝚋. 𝙸 𝚍𝚒𝚍𝚗’𝚝 𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚝𝚛𝚘𝚕 𝚘𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚖𝚘𝚗𝚎𝚢 𝚎𝚒𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛.

I started real estate 🏡 to gain some control in 2013.

I was in a networking group called #HardcoreCloser , specifically #TheTribe by 𝐑𝐲𝐚𝐧 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐰𝐦𝐚𝐧. And it was mentioned to me I should meet 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐢 𝐋𝐨𝐜𝐤, by 𝐀𝐝𝐚𝐦 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐤.

I watched her content, & reached out to her. She allowed me to be in her group, because 𝐑𝐲𝐚𝐧 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐰𝐦𝐚𝐧 & 𝐀𝐝𝐚𝐦 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐤 were her brothers from 𝐒𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧’𝐬 group. Not bad people to know 🫶🏻♥️ 11 years ago, or now.

Marci told me I was living a BS life. Telling BS stories to myself, & asked me if I wanted to live in a loveless, sexless, marriage. And if I thought drinking & taking anxiety meds & anti depressants each day was a good idea. It was a matter of time before I was unalive.

She told me I needed to leave my marriage, no matter what that looked like to me.

I told her I had 5 kids, & no money. She repeated “No matter what that looks like for you”.

𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐮𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝟐𝟎𝟏𝟓 , 𝐈 𝐭𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐦𝐲 𝐞𝐱 𝐡𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐞 𝐛𝐲 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡 𝟐𝟎𝟏𝟓. 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝟏𝟎 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐀𝐮𝐠𝐮𝐬𝐭.

Nᴇxᴛ ᴍᴏɴᴛʜ, ᴡɪʟʟ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ʙᴇᴇɴ 10 ʏᴇᴀʀs sɪɴᴄᴇ ⵊ ᴍᴀᴅᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ᴅᴇᴄɪsɪᴏɴ.

𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐨𝐫𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝟐𝟎𝟎𝟕. 𝐻𝑒 𝑖𝑠 𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑚𝑒 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑣𝑒 ℎ𝑖𝑚.

My parents aren’t over me being “so selfish because the kids had so much” & who was going to take care of them in old age now? They continue to punish. They also loved, that at that time, my ex husband was famous in the oil field & that was something they could claim & talk about. Their closest friends, are from when I was on drill team. They used me to make friends when we moved to this country. After they abandoned me & my step brother. I came 2 years later. He never came. 𝐼𝑡 𝑤𝑎s #Canada , 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑎 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑟𝑑 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑙𝑑 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑟𝑦 𝑎𝑡 𝑤𝑎𝑟 33 - 35 𝑦𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑠 𝑎𝑔𝑜. They just wanted to leave.

My step father isolated my mother from her entire family, coerced her into leaving me. Why not? He was leaving his only son. The child they had together, was the important one. It had “the proper” DNA 🧬 compared to the rest of us.

Having a mother SO completely detached is harmful. Nothing was more important than my stepfather & what he wanted. Nothing. It was the same as being addicted to crack or meth. Nothing else mattered.

I was told my entire life my biological father was an alcoholic, horrible, & physically abusive to my mother. That he didn’t pay child support, & I’d constantly get punished for mentioning him or for loving him. Guilt, manipulation, verbal abuse & actual physical abuse by those days standards. 𝐵𝑟𝑎𝑖𝑛𝑤𝑎𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑖𝑠 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑙.

The thing about my biological father was, he wasn’t the one who actually lacked empathy. He had a full & massive heart. What he lacked was an ability to express emotions properly, so it came out in name calling & swearing.

It made it incredibly easy for my step father to point at my biological father, call him an alcoholic, & all the #Sheeple would follow suit, without question. It made the brainwashing simpler for my step father.

When my dad died 6 months before Olivia started getting chemotherapy, my family realized my protection was gone, & I’ve been sued non stop since.

My dad’s side of the family disowned me for saying “had my father not had alcohol issues his subdural hematoma would have healed “. They said he hated facebook, but my stepmother had his funeral live-streamed on facebook. #Facts

My stepmother kept what my father left for me inheritance- wise. Which probably wasn’t much, but I could have fought the lawsuits or helped my children.

I can only assume to collect my inheritance, that documents & IDs were forged 🤷🏼‍♀️ because I didn’t provide them to anyone personally.

What they attempt to link everything to is someone I dated after my divorce, who I knew from high school….. he ended up being on meth & cocaine. I had no idea until he was arrested. He didn’t have it around me, or my kids. He was embarrassed & I was who he was living off of. I put him through rehab, but he behaved poorly.

My family & ex husband use 𝒉𝒊𝒔 story as if it was mine to gain attention, & to justify their actions. I’ve never done meth in my life, & needed the police, attorneys & his mother to explain it to me. I made excuses for him having a traumatic brain injury the entire time, because that’s what I thought.

My two oldest hold grudges from this still, & it’s been 7-8 years passed. I just made a horrible choice in “a man”. I didn’t do the things he did. He’s a degreed person & was a head coach at a high school. Supposed to be great with kids.

𝑆𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑖𝑠 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑖𝑡 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑖𝑠.

I have an ex husband wanting to burn all bridges, so I come back to him like a gangster movie.

And I have parents having no issue using my children as pawns, because that’s what they did with theirs.

Eᴠᴇʀʏᴛʜɪɴɢ ɪs ᴛᴏ sᴀᴠᴇ ꜰᴀᴄᴇ.

𝑰𝒇 𝑰 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒘, 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒆𝒅. 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒄𝒂𝒏’𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈!

𝕀 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕓𝕖 𝕕𝕖𝕤𝕥𝕣𝕠𝕪𝕖𝕕 & 𝕔𝕣𝕦𝕤𝕙𝕖𝕕.

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐈𝐒 𝐦𝐲 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞.

This chain of events shortly after made me realize there’s nothing more important than being mentally, physically, & emotionally healthy 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐝, 𝐁𝐨𝐝𝐲 and 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 … So I made a commitment to optimize my health for the rest of my life. Then I realized after that, that health was fun, simpler than I thought and I felt dramatically different then I did when I was unhealthy. Its amazing what’s on the other side of everything stopping you from committing to your health.

I know I resisted my healthiest life for YEARS.

Only regret is waiting so long!

𝐋𝐞𝐭’𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟓 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫, 𝐒𝐓𝐑𝐎𝐍𝐆. 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞

𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝑑𝑎𝑖𝑙𝑦 𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑜𝑟𝑝𝑜𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑎𝑟𝑒:

🧘🏻‍♀️ Meditate 5 min a day- guidance will be given

🌿 Take detox herbs daily- we will all be taking the same protocol

🛼 30 min of movement daily- workouts provided or walking, pickle ball, any movement counts

📖 10 min of reading or listening to PD- suggestions provided

🥑 Eat whole meals with real food no fake or fast food- recipes and grocery list provided

Doing this for 30 days will set the tone for the year mentally, physically & energetically. Health is not just one area, but many which what makes this challenge so impactful.

𝐋𝐄𝐓𝐒 𝐆𝐎𝐎𝐎, 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐫 𝐃𝐦 “𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠”

🫶🏻♥️

(Check my socials for more to read, I’ve posted much more there over the past couple of years.)

#StartStrongChallenge #StartStrong #Challenge #HolisticHealthMovement #NewYearStrongerMe #NewYearNewMe #NewYearNewYou #WellnessJourney #HolisticHealth #HolisticHealing #HolisticLiving #AllNatural #AllNaturalProducts #TanjaVargo #MindBodyAndSoulMentor #MindBodyAndSoul #VitalHealth #VitalHealthGlobal #NarcissisticAbuseSurvivor #NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissisticFamily #Narcissist #Empath #Empathy

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Happy Mother’s Day

𝐓𝐨𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐥𝐨𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬!

If you haven’t noticed yet, tomorrow is Mother’s Day!

My respect goes out to EVERY Father who chooses to honor HIS child’s / children’s Mother on Mother’s Day!

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The Hits Just Keep Coming

“𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒊𝒕𝒔 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒌𝒆𝒆𝒑 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒈”

Andy Frisella put an email out this morning titled that.

He went on further to say,

“𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑖𝑠 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑘𝑒𝑒𝑝𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑟𝑦...𝐵𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑠𝑜 𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑟𝑦, 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑐𝑎𝑛’𝑡 𝑠𝑒𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑜𝑏𝑣𝑖𝑜𝑢𝑠…”

This is something I had already figured out years ago. The more you do, the more hits come. The more kids you have, the more hits come.

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How to Irritate Me

I’ve had to step back & evaluate how to articulate what actually gets my blood pressure up when people go negative in real life or on the internet.

It’s very limited in thinking, to me, that one would believe it’s merely because I don’t agree with them. Going there, actually removes themselves from accountability & the equation, which is also interesting to me.

It’s not that I disagree with what they say that’s irritating me. I don’t agree with a lot of things.

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Lavender Oil Benefits

Lavender smells amazing and is known as a universal oil!

It assists with sleep, skin conditions, Anxiety, Stress, and muscle cramps…you name it!

It reminds me of the dad saying, “Put Windex on it” from the movie “My Big Fat Greek Wedding”

Lavender works just like that!

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Ladies, Put Yourself First!

𝑬𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒅𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒆𝒎𝒂𝒍𝒆 𝒔𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 & 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔!

I was listening to Abraham Hicks this morning & she reminded me of this!

As females we are conditioned to put others before us whether we’re married with kids or not. Being selfish, displaying selfishness, appearing “forward” is generally frowned upon.

Are you where you want to be goal-wise at the moment?

If our vibration isn’t in alignment with what we are desiring, it doesn’t come. The universe won’t bring it. That little sucker will be “in escrow” until you’re ready!

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One of The Things I’m Most Proud Of!

𝑰 𝒘𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒂 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒗𝒚 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒗𝒊𝒆𝒘 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒍𝒚.

I was asked some very serious questions, because it is for a management position & I’d be responsible for developing human beings.

I must admit, I’m better at writing my answers out & I’m a lot quicker when I’m angry & it’s usually jokes.

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Character vs Reputation

This is exactly it!

Decide who you are & be that! You’ll end up lost, or a victim of society if you do it the other way.

There is no line of perfection to walk.

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Anger is Good! It Causes Change.

𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒅 𝒂 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝑰’𝒗𝒆 𝒈𝒐𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒏 𝑹𝑬𝑨𝑳𝑳𝒀 𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒓𝒚!

I can promise you, each time I've made a correction, adjustment, or change in my life it was due to emotion! Without it, most of us would stay little bumps on a log.

Emotion is often the inspiration to cause us to act and realize a change is even required to be made.

Think about it:

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Stability - What it Actually is to a Woman

𝑺𝒐, 𝑰 𝒈𝒐𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒂 𝒔𝒎𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒄𝒖𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒍𝒆 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 “𝑾𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏 𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚“ 𝒂 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒑𝒍𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒅𝒂𝒚𝒔 𝒂𝒈𝒐.

It was unfortunate that it was a fast conversation, because there are additional things besides money & income that cause & create “𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑏𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑦”

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I don’t “Need” your money, but it would be great if you helped Solve My Problems

𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒎𝒆, 𝑩𝑼𝑻 𝒊𝒕 𝒘𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒃𝒆 𝒂𝒎𝒂𝒛𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒔𝒐𝒍𝒗𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒚 𝒅𝒂𝒏𝒈 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒎𝒔!

This is or would have been an opportunity for a significant other to come in & be a hero or a Knight in shining armor….but I have none…so “that guy” is me.

Last night, I was in a hurry to get to work & traffic was backed up on Durham, so I cut down a side street to “save time.” The back passenger tire hit a curb & sliced my tire in an ”L” shape.

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