Stability - What it Actually is to a Woman
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๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ โ๐พ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐โ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐
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It was unfortunate that it was a fast conversation, because there are additional things besides money & income that cause & create โ๐ ๐ก๐๐๐๐๐๐ก๐ฆโ
1) ๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐๐๐ซ๐ญ.
If I know a man is always coming from a good place with me, at all times, it ties down trust & respect each time I experience it. I will shift from protecting myself, to becoming at ease.
๐) ๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ง ๐จ๐ง.
In the past, Iโve often been my significant otherโs cheerleader & found there were no days off from the job for me. Me having a โTanja dayโ would throw the day into shambles, because how dare I need support. I often found there was no patience for me being upset, stressed, or emotional. That, or they just did nothing or didnโt know what to do. I can think of 4 relationships off the top of my head where I would have gotten chastised & yelled at for hitting the curb with my tire the other day. For Real.
๐) ๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฃ๐จ๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐ฆ.
It doesnโt matter how much you do, or donโt haveโฆIf youโre the type that will impulsively quit your job out of ego or on a whimโฆ.Itโs going to cause distress & uncertainty in a relationship. It wonโt feel stable to a female partner in any way. She might โget whyโ, but sheโll stop trusting you completely & eventually become resentful that sheโs tied to you, because her life wonโt feel stable.
๐) ๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐ฏ๐ & ๐๐ฆ๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.
God gave women intuition & the ability to see potential! Lucky you! It means we can see one or two things about you & make a decent prediction of how the future โcouldโ look based on current & recent behavior. She can decide if youโre stable & could create, future stability, based on your goals & mindset.
๐) ๐๐๐ง๐๐ซ๐๐ฅ & ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ $๐ก!t
Who doesnโt love a man with a plan? You got one? What have you charted out? What are you planning to accomplish? Is the tiny bit you have accomplished the result of you taking care of business? Iโd be calm AF in the presence of that. Thatโs stable
So fellas, it ainโt just what youโve got stockpiled or the tangible gifts you can give. Most of the time, stability is just being โa good manโ AND handling what little you might or do have.
