He’s Coming Back

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗲𝘀!!

𝙃𝙚’𝙨 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙗𝙖𝙘𝙠! 𝘐 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘦… 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘥𝘰！

If a man, worst case scenario, wants to have sex with you, wants to again, OR best case scenario, loves you….he’s coming back.

𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡’𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑓𝑎𝑏𝑢𝑙𝑜𝑢𝑠 𝑛𝑒𝑤𝑠！

Just be careful which one of the above it actually is for.

The news you won’t like, is it probably won’t be in your timeframe & he’s probably gonna do a whole bunch of stuff in the separation that’s gonna make you wanna snatch him up and go “𝐖hiskey 𝐓ango 𝐅oxtrot?!”

Believe me…sometimes that is their goal. To antagonize you a little bit & or to make you reach out to them. Some will do it to try & make you look crazy

Age & economic status doesn’t matter either…reverting to high school behavior happens even in their 50s.

For whatever reason you lost communication… he’s gotta go do some weird stuff to figure it all out. I wish it was just going to play golf , but they don’t process their emotions as quickly or understand them right away. They’re also pretty good at shutting their emotions down, making it your fault or problem until……. It hits them.

They effed up. Running through hos ain’t free or fun. The passive chick that doesn’t hold them accountable, & keep him grounded has run her course… whatever the “stuff” is.

A friend of mine from high school was telling me a story about this woman he’d been with, & he messed it up & wanted her back.

*much deeper in the conversation *

Me: This is going to sound selfish, but for pure data reasons, how long did it take you to figure out you messed up & she was the one?

Him: a year

Me: A year!!???? A f@cking year!!???

Him: I know. I’m an a$$ hole

Me: No! I apologize. My shock isn’t directed at you, it just seems to be at least that long in my own personal experience as well.

He’s coming back…. I promise. We as women can process & handle emotions quickly, because we’re like a 8 lane superhighway in that respect. Unfortunately, they can be mostly like a broken trike on a dirt road. We can process something instantly or in a day or two. Men can and will require months and years…completely losing you even.

𝑰𝒕’𝒔 𝒖𝒑 𝒕𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒉𝒊𝒎 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒐𝒓 𝒏𝒐𝒕. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒅𝒆𝒄𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒊𝒇 𝒉𝒆’𝒔 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒐𝒏, 𝒐𝒓 𝒊𝒇 𝒉𝒆’𝒔 𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒉𝒊𝒔.