How to Attract A Woman
Them : I can’t get this girl
Me: What’s your approach?
Bruh …. No “healed woman“ is going to be down for, or fall for toxic behavior & antics. They just won’t. Thankfully, most men speak it or show it in some way, so detection isn’t difficult. The unhealed woman will ignore it & move forward anyway. It’s not that she didn’t pick up on it.
Lots of guys lead with money - not gonna work on a healed woman
A healed woman will immediately throw up an invisible boundary & start searching. Many times all the gifts, trips & places are “love bombing” & a distraction. OR even compensation for poor behavior & a less than desirable personality.
Then there’s the jealousy tactic - not gonna work on a healed woman
To my face, men will rattle off how many women they’ve been with or that want them in an effort to create competition & value. A healed woman will run from a man this insecure. We aren’t impressed by the fact you can run through hos like drano. AND… you flat out just told us we’re the next one.
Desperate & lonely tactic - not gonna work on a healed woman
I had this dude reach out to me & he let me know that it’s admirable that I’m career focused & spend time with my kids BUT….any night I’m lonely he could slide over discretely with a bottle of wine. A healed woman will not go for this. I flat out explained to him, that even if I do get lonely now & then… that it doesn’t cause me to do casual & meaningless things. I’m not broken.
The Parental Tactic - this is not going to work on a healed woman
I can see why this can accidentally happen. When men start to catch feelings or have caught feelings, the protection response activates in them. Most of the time, I can give it some grace…. But if I’ve told you “I’m good” a few times & you keep coming with the free advice I didn’t ask for…. My actual father is laughing at you from beyond the grave Healed women are open to a strong man who can take care of their stuff AND the dynamic has to ALSO be she can say “no” to you now & then without you feeling wounded. It’s not an attack or an actual rejection of you. She also just doesn’t need an additional Dad.
Them: What the heck do I do?
Me: Be yourself. Be vulnerable. A healed woman will appreciate that & protect it.
