I was just having a conversation with a friend of mine. He told me he was in a constant search for someone for me.

I was like “Well, the unfortunate thing is that my emotional intelligence is like an eight-lane superhighway, and theirs is like a broken trike on a dirt road.”

He laughed & told me it didn’t matter how many times he read that message, it made him laugh. He was like “yeah… I’m just a monkey clanging cymbals over here.” (And sent me a meme of that.)

“𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙪𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙣𝙤 𝙗𝙤𝙣𝙚, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙞𝙩 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙗𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙠 𝙗𝙤𝙣𝙚.”

This is a beautiful & insightful Italian proverb.

Personally, my mother attempted to teach me the sticks & stones thing….but the Italian proverb is actually true.

Words have so much power, that they literally can change the course of a person’s life in a millisecond!

In this movie, the female character “Meg” is the one who cannot accept that she is in complete denial about being in love with “Hercules”

𝑰’𝒎 𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒓𝒆𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒚 𝒊𝒏 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒍 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒐𝒘𝒏 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒆 & 𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓𝒔!

On any front, if the person standing in front of you hasn’t attained the goal you’re seeking, & they’re giving you advice….I’m giving you permission to ask them where their “Wisdom” came from? Because if it’s not from experience….it isn’t “Wisdom”. They will have no empathy for your path, & they can’t chart a course for you to get there!

𝐎𝐤𝐚𝐲 𝐋𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐬! 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐡𝐢𝐦!

Since I got divorced, & crashed out a couple of other relationships, I‘ve developed a little litmus test to keep myself from being bamboozled!

So, if you’re trying to figure out if your heart is actually in it or not…Give this a shot!

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮?

I can tell you, I used to equate it to money pretty much only. Now, I know the money in your bank account doesn’t amount to anything particularly meaningful.

Andy Frisella put an email out last week saying, most millionaires he knew were actually stupid & couldn’t tell you the difference between “you’re” & “your.”

It has always cracked me up when my kids do impersonations of me.

One of my favorite videos, is one of my oldest daughter, Rebecca, impersonating me sitting on the couch, watching Bravo, scrolling Facebook & laughing, while writing a contract, telling everyone ”Be quiet! I’m writing a contract “ & wanting a Diet Coke.

When you are completely railing on someone, gossiping, bursting into flames, and full of hate…you’re actually on the darker side of admiring them & being inspired by them!

𝙁𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙢𝙚𝙖𝙣𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪’𝙧𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧.

Negative emotions are indicators & let you know there’s something important for you to address right away, or you’re going to create & maintain blockages in your life. They are very powerful!

If you are not maintaining control of your thoughts and emotions, someone else will! I'm living and breathing proof of that. There are people out there that love control, and want everyone else to think and believe exactly what they do! Know anyone like that?

Well, you actually know the answer to this, & it’s usually a condescending joke….however, a lot of it is our hormones, because they cause our body to function & hormones control just about everything.

I was running around this morning, getting my day on with this on my mind and BAM ! Andy Frisella put out an email this morning on EXACTLY what I was thinking!“You have zero obligation to maintain the relationships you have with negative people...Zero.

𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙬𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙖𝙧𝙠 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨?

The answer to the above question is 𝙔𝙀𝙎.

There is a purpose for 𝙏𝙬𝙞𝙣 𝙁𝙡𝙖𝙢𝙚𝙨, 𝙎𝙩𝙖𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙨, & 𝙀𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙝 𝘼𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙡𝙨 here on earth!

𝑊ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑠𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑠？ 𝐼’𝑣𝑒 𝑛𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑑 𝑜𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑚！

While my spiritual background is, Lutheran, I assure you I had never heard of these things until the last 5 years of my life, because the Bible doesn’t mention them….yet they exist!

When you have someone in your life, constantly ramming at your cage to destroy your peace…Pray that God give them peace & whatever it is they feel is missing in their life.

This is for the fellas out there in the dating world trying to level up with a woman!

Many of you want to express sentimental feelings or emotions, but have been taught it’s wrong or have a huge fear of rejection, so it’s paralyzing for you to move things forward in relationships or level them up!

If you permit me to assist, I will be glad to!

Destiny, Free will, Karma….. Lord have mercy! What are you talking about girl?

Hmmmm….. let me explain. We all have “free will”. It’s God given. You choose everything in your life & those little choices become the building blocks of your life!

I love to exercise and work out, because I always get out of it, exactly what I put into it!

There’s nothing to interfere with the results when I choose to take action! It all comes back to you in direct proportion.

When I chose to go into nursing school, I wanted to be a S.A.N.E. (Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner) Nurse or work with babies.

I had always been drawn to all the Law & Order shows since they began. Up until I had the triplets, I had seen every episode of every show. I felt it being a S.A.N.E. nurse would allow me to assist in Justice, as well as, be compassionate support to women who needed help & possibly a voice!

My legs can be so stubborn at times! Mind over matter is a real thing when it comes to them & my mind is frequently having to tell them who’s boss & put them back in line!