Why Are Women So Crazy?!
𝙒𝙝𝙮 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙣 𝙎𝙊 𝘾𝙍𝘼𝙕𝙔?!
Uh…your momma is crazy JK …. I’m sure she’s amazing.
Well, you actually know the answer to this, & it’s usually a condescending joke….however, a lot of it is our hormones, because they cause our body to function & hormones control just about everything.
When a woman is older, she can be in a constant state, of perpetual, exhaustion, that is a daily or minute by minute war they are waging against themselves. Most days are okay, however, there’s a particular week, before a week…. Where the exhaustion is at cold & flu levels, or something along those lines. That’s the week the jokes won’t hit right, forgetting stuff isn’t okay, & stuff you’ve done 20 times before is suddenly unforgivable.
Most of it is because we’ve been holding it in & letting it slide, and you finally hit the week where she didn’t have the inner strength to let the issue go or blow it off. That’s why it “seems” like it’s “out of nowhere “. “She just went crazy”.
No. She’s exhausted & that was time 20 or year 10 or something …. And she was incapable of blowing it off that particular day. It was always there, she just didn’t voice it.
Letting people know something as soon as it bothers me, is a skill I had to learn. Most women have to learn to ask for what they want & set boundaries, because we’re intuitive by nature. We usually walk into a room & can catch the vibe immediately. So, learning to interact with any human being that isn’t as intuitive or isn’t intuitive at all, is a skill set. We don’t understand why you can’t read our mind, because we can read yours or pretty close.
We know by the way you exhale. We know by the cadence in your voice & if you over enunciate your words when you speak, that you’re nervous. We know if your clenching your jaw when you’re holding back anger. We can see your chest puff out when you’re proud & happy. We visually see your glow when you’re truly happy & at peace. We notice when you go silent.
We are reading you, involuntarily, at all times. We don’t understand why you can’t, or don’t necessarily do that like we can. It’s very frustrating for us, & condescending, judgmental tones can come from it in the similar way you don’t understand why we can’t shut our feelings down & lock the door on them. We aren’t a lesser being for not being able to do it….just like you’re not a lesser being for not having a natural sixth sense that doesn’t require development.
When women are younger, they might not be capable of clearly identifying why they are emotional & what causes it. They don’t necessarily understand they’re tired. They can also have a baseline rage within them the week before the week, that causes the same issues older women’s exhaustion does.
It is hormones & can have the same effect as if you ever experimented with anabolic steroids. All the anger & exhaustion of doing a steroid cycle, is the same as a woman’s cycle. We want to eat & sleep. That’s it. And it can be “mad day”. It goes away with age, or identifying it. Well it doesn’t go away… one learns what it is & copes with it.
Now, the week before the week, you may also see the rules on previous dietary restrictions do not apply….this can cause confusion. Just feed her & don’t ask questions. It will all go back to normal the following week. I eat a lot of food that particular week & Ice cream , pizza & cheeseburgers solve problems you can’t. I will be angry I did that 3 days later, & get back on track myself. It doesn’t require any discussion
In closing, you are allowed to know hormones & fatigue are the issue…you are NEVER allowed to verbalize this. EVER! It communicates that our state of being at that time isn’t real & that we are less than you. We don’t like that.
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