𝑾𝒉𝒚 𝑴𝒆𝒏 𝑫𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒔𝒉𝒐𝒘 𝑽𝒖𝒍𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚!

SO! A few days ago I did a post on “5 hidden insecurities men have”. I appreciated the responses VERY much, because I have sons & other men I love and adore in my life!

It also caused me to reflect, because even though I am a safe space for my sons to be vulnerable, they still have issues with being awkward with it, & I was really concerned about who messed my sons up after my insecurities post! I immediately started studying it!

𝐓𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐮𝐭….𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 “𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐨𝐫𝐧 𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐞”

5 𝑯𝒊𝒅𝒅𝒆𝒏 𝑰𝒏𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒆𝒔 𝒎𝒆𝒏 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆.

I’m sharing this because, as women, sometimes we have absolutely NO idea we’re even able to hurt the men we love & adore, at all, because they’re so dang tough & silent. Here’s the truth:

𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝑯𝑨𝑽𝑬 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒔𝒆𝒙 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏 𝒊𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒑𝒑𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒘𝒂𝒚 𝒂𝒕 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒖𝒆𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑!

This information absolutely ticked me off the first time I heard it….because I didn’t want to. There was too much resentment & it felt like a bow down & a reward for him that he in no way deserved in my opinion. So I didn’t. So we didn’t. So it ended.

Well, you actually know the answer to this, & it’s usually a condescending joke….however, a lot of it is our hormones, because they cause our body to function & hormones control just about everything.