5 Hidden Insecurities Men Have
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Iโm sharing this because, as women, sometimes we have absolutely NO idea weโre even able to hurt the men we love & adore, at all, because theyโre so dang tough & silent. Hereโs the truth:
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Many were taught not to show emotions or cry, so as adults they completely numb out in various ways. This actually also causes them to numb out joy they want to experience as well.
Personally, when Iโve seen men I love cry, itโs made me feel closer to them , & like Iโve seen โthe realโ them.
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This is why they donโt ask for directions, because then everyone will know they โdonโt knowโ & they feel like theyโre supposed to ALWAYS know where to go & what to do.
For me, I wouldnโt choose to be around someone I thought wasnโt good enough for me. Iโm typically into guys who know things I donโt, or make up for things Iโm just not great at. Iโm personally fine if he doesnโt know the answer. If you say you donโt knowโฆit moves things along so we can figure it out.
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Not pleasing your woman isnโt being โa manโ. This goes right along with the โnot asking for directionsโ right above.
In that way, I know Iโm complicated & things change for me constantly. What worked yesterday, might not work today . Itโs annoying. So, my expectation, personally, isnโt going to be that any man gets it right on the first try. Itโs gonna take lots of tries AND THEN my body is going to change it upโฆ.again. Stress, sleep, hormonesโฆchange it all.
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Not tall enough, not broad enough, too much weight, not enough weight, too much hair, not enough hair, wrong jaw lineโฆ
I was kinda shocked about this one. I always thought this was a womenโs issue. Personally, men can look amazing, but if youโre mean & not nice, itโs not going to matter to me. Looks can be entertaining for sure, but if I donโt enjoy spending time with you, what does it matter? Iโve also been every weight & body typeโฆI can change it when I want to. Itโs a body!
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They donโt particularly like when there are problems they donโt know how to solve, so generally speaking, they will avoid things like therapy & isolate themselves. Many will sabotage relationships, work, businesses etc due to this.
I watched a video of someone I know whoโs a veteran. He was the first person I ever saw express being afraid & overwhelmed at being shot at while serving our country. My heart completely melted right then & I wanted to go destroy everyone that THOUGHT about firing a bullet in his direction. It also made me wake up to how real that experience had to be.
Insecurities sabotage the connections we crave. They are insidious, & donโt allow us to have the true connections we desire. Due to this fear, we donโt show our full selves & it prevents us from getting what we want in the first place.
