Men…It’s Not Your Lack of Funds

There’s an interesting conversation circulating around another conversation on one of my former posts:

𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝑣𝑎𝑠𝑡 𝑚𝑎𝑗𝑜𝑟𝑖𝑡𝑦 𝑜𝑓 𝑤𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑛 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑜𝑢𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑜𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑎 “𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑢𝑝” ＆ “𝑙𝑖𝑓𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑦𝑙𝑒” 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑖𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝑔𝑒𝑡 𝑖𝑡, 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝑔𝑜 𝑜𝑛 𝑎𝑑𝑑𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑎𝑙 𝑑𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑠 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑚𝑒𝑛．

May I please open with….This isn’t new.

Generally speaking, stability is what women are in search of in a relationship, & men are looking for someone “fun” typically. The genders aren’t the same & the world has been turning like this A LONG TIME.

That being said, 𝑴𝒆𝒏, 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒃𝒆𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒂𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒋𝒐𝒃 & 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒑𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒊𝒃𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒃𝒊𝒓𝒕𝒉?

To provide?

Am I missing something here?

Work freaking harder! Open another business! Invest in things!

I’m 45 years old. I’m basically looked at as a dude now. Stuff is just my responsibility, because I’m not fresh & new in my 20s.

Men, do you not realize there’s a sliding scale for you too with women who are younger & haven’t been married yet?

If you’re not “together” physically….you should probably have money.

If you’ve got a bit of money and you’re generous…you can get away with a lacking personality a little bit….& not be “the best” looking.

You can’t be unfortunate looking, mean & have a matching or less income.

Check where you are on the scale.

For women 38 ish and up…especially if they’ve been divorced….they probably realized that the money wasn’t worth it. They probably got to keep half & or had to make their own.

They aren’t looking for a “come up”. They want someone they are attracted to & a personality that syncs in some way. If they’re like me, they already had one or a few guys live off them since the divorce. I’ll disappear the minute I sense you’re worried about what I have.

Additionally, women date way younger to protect what they have & what they’ve built. They aren’t looking to commit. That isn’t a huge percentage, but I have friends like that.

Equal rights means we want to be treated the same in pay, voting, etc. It doesn’t mean we don’t want to be treated like women.

Man up! The female mentality & tradition hasn’t changed! I literally know a millionaire who designs food trucks for a living!

Get your idea & run with it! Eff your excuses. The odds are the mangina is a complete turn-off. Not your lack of funds.