Why are you STILL Single?

Originally Written 03/09/2023

𝑾𝒉𝒚 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒍𝒆? 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑰’𝒎 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒔𝒆𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈?



I’ve answered this before…still getting the question.

Ah well….

I‘ve been laughing at the new Taylor Swift song “Anti-Hero”. “It’s me” Especially when I get the same kind of feedback. We must be connected on a soul level.

𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒕 𝒊𝒔….

I’m busy….I don’t put the effort in.

I don’t do dating apps at all.

I only meet people at work & in meetings.

I haven’t been open to it except for 2-3 people in 3 years exactly tomorrow.

The 3 years exactly tomorrow thing…was horrible.

Same with the one before that.

I have daily reminders of what it was like to be married.

I’ve been on horrible dates.

Most of the people I’d be open to putting effort into, don’t live in the city I live in. They don’t like that.

I actually have a strong aversion to people being able to pop by & become an issue. I’ll probably have to have a long distance relationship before I trust a local one.

I’m afraid of someone hurting my kids.

If the chemistry isn’t there. I’m not interested.

𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒕’𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒕 𝒔𝒂𝒖𝒄𝒆 𝒓𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆