Positivity isn’t Sunshine and Rainbows

Positivity, absolutely IS NOT smothering, the BS of life with sunshine, rainbows, and fake a$$ stuff. It's being real about where you are, and creating a new you, product, or life out of the BS that was handed to you. It's not slinging some happy, wordy words to cover it up.

Anyone who has taken an actual physical hit and or assault of some kind, will resonate with what I'm about to say. You can occasionally find yourself in situations where you know you're going to get screwed or hurt. In that moment, it is better for you to accept and understand, that it's going to hurt, and that you are going to get hurt. Once you get clear, and accept that, your mind will allow you to think of how to get out of the situation. It's the fear of being victimized that paralyzes people and keeps them stuck, and blocks their creativity for solutions. Accept that the pain is coming, (hit, hurt, screwed) and that it's going to happen, and the solutions will come. You'll be able to fight your way out, and conquer it. Take the lemon, and make lemonade. It won't happen until you move out of the victim mental space first, because that fear blocks solutions, and creativity.

Unfortunately, it's usually people that tell you that they love you, and want what's best for you, that come to finish you off, and then lick the blade clean as they watch you suffer. You can't stop what people choose to do in life, you can hand them a glass of lemonade though.

What negative things are you taking action on to make positive today?